Don’t kill yourself by asking why all the time. Things happen for a reason, every decision, every situation is just opening up a path for something better to come along. Ending a relationship can be pretty traumatic for the two people involved. The fact that the relationship doesn’t seem to work, despite putting your heart and soul in it, is enough a reason to call it quits. However, I know ending a relationship is never easy, as there are so many emotions to be dealt with, guilt, sorrow, anger, bitterness, fear, and jealousy. But it is more difficult to end a relationship because there is an additional responsibility of breaking the news to the person you truly loved and felt closed to. Although, the pain associated with ending a relationship cannot be alleviated completely, you can at least minimize it by ending the relationship gracefully. If two people are not destined to stay together, sooner or later, they’ll have to part ways. And, the sooner it happens the better.
Parting ways with someone you loved and cared for is definitely not easy, but sometimes you are better off without that person in your life. It’s not like people who break up, do not care for each other. You can care a lot for a person, love them truly and yet not want to live with them. Loving, perhaps, has little to do with being together and hence, many people who break up still love each other a lot. Remember to call it quits only when you are absolutely sure that there is no way, that you can save your relationship. Many times, couples rush into a break up, only to regret it later. Think about it, but don’t worry yourself with why’s? We have to know that somethings just aren’t meant to last, and somethings are, this was not one of them. </3
You want a perfect relationship right? No fights? No Arguments? No tears? You think you and your bf/gf will be happy. No it wasn’t. Think about it, Imagine, no sorry’s with cuddles, no efforts for you so will forgive him? Isn’t that so boring? So, fights, arguments, and tears is just a challenge for you and your love ones to measure how long can your love for him/her last.
|—||William Shakespeare (via veg-pits)|
i actually have a fashion taste that is completly different from what i actually wear but i dont have enough confidence to wear what i really want to wear
You may think that you know people and then they would surprise you. They would make you astonished with everything that they could do. You may know their name and what happened to them but you would not know who they really are. The truth is you may not know anything at all. You know their name but you don’t know their attitude. You know that they did but you never knew what their reason was. You know some details about them but it doesn’t mean it is the truth. Nobody knows anyone. We are just individuals living our lives the way we wanted it to be but we will never know anything or anyone apart from ourselves and everything that we could do. The truth is, people are like moons. A part of them would always be hidden from everyone. You may see a fraction of them but it is not an enough reason to judge them or say anything against them. As people always say, you know their name, not their story and even if you know their tale, it wouldn’t be the whole novel of their life, only a chapter. This is why people would always surprise you with everything that they could do. The truth is you would never know until you find out about them.
Friends with benefits
This is the kind of relationship when two people decided to have an intimate connection but still, they admit that they are just friends. They would have sex anytime that they would like but they have to agree that they should not be emotionally attached with each other. They keep on insisting that they are just doing it for fun. They are having sex just to fulfill each other’s needs. They are doing it because they are happy but it doesn’t mean that they would fall in love.
But somewhere, somehow, someone’s gonna get attached. It is impossible not to specially when you are having a very intimate relationship. No matter how many times you have insisted that you are just friends, it wouldn’t gonna come up as that. Someone’s gonna expect for more. Someone’s gonna get jealous. Someone’s gonna fall in love. Someone’s gonna get hurt in the end. So if you are wanting to have a friends with benefits relationship with someone, you should keep in mind that you can never achieve to be very intimate with someone yet stay just friends with them. You have to understand that someone’s gonna fall for the other so you have to be careful or just forget getting into this relationship at all. It is too risky. So, you might as well have a normal relationship before it gets worse.
I have so many reasons to let go but I don’t know why I’m still holding on.
Even though your relationship’s a total mess, you still can’t leave it. Even though you always fight and hurt one another frequently, you still don’t have the guts to let go. Even though, you’re jealous all the time, you still can’t replace that person with someone better. Even though sometimes you’re thinking that this is the worst relationship ever, you still consider it the best one you’ve ever had in your life. Do you know why you still hold on? Because you love that person so much. Because you don’t care about anything else—just that person on your side, forever.. regardless the flaws and heartaches it caused you. For you, it’s better to be miserable now than to lose him and be more miserable.